by Anonymous Father




I recently endured a 3 hour hearing in the family courts. Having not been allowed to be a father for over 2 years and the hearing was happening as a result of an application I made well over a year ago.

Not only do the courts have my 50 page witness statement containing all the evidence of the lies that have been told to the courts for years. I went above and beyond and produced many character witness statements about me from people who have known me for many years, some as long as 30 years.
None of this was taken into account.

Now here comes the crazy part.
I have written a book that details the complete truth and the whole story. The courts were aware of this. They were also aware of all the blogs prior to this one that were entered onto my site before the hearing. I made sure to send links to the courts so they were fully aware of their existence, the site, the book, my campaign, everything. The judge referred to issues regarding things I’ve done which are all explained in the book in detail. He even referred to one of the issues in a blog proving he was aware of them.

I am campaigning like many others to stop the child abuse that is parental alienation. My book is deliberately there to help others and make them KNOW they are not alone. It is also there for the courts to read if they really do want to know the whole story AND the truth because the family courts are there to protect children (aren’t they?)

I am openly raising money for children in need. That is clear from the website and all my social media. 25% of the profits from each sale go to charity.

It is also abundantly clear that as a result of my sheer desperation fighting for the truth through the courts and not being heard. I became so lost and damaged that I attempted suicide. Thankfully I failed and the good lord has given me another chance to keep fighting to be a loving father again, and try to help all the other suffering children.

The school, the legal guardian, the children’s barrister, the mother, the solicitor, even the courts knew and had full access to this information. That things got so bad for me last year that this order now in place could have had every chance of leading me into that desperation and loss of my children again yet they all continued. Essentially taking my life in their hands. I am stronger than ever before, they did not know this. Had I not been so strong and had successfully committed suicide after the last hearing they would all share the responsibility, even the judge. 

Knowing all of this, having access to ALL of this information and truth the courts still ignored me and ruled in favour of the mother. Removing my legal rights to my children for the rest of their childhoods. An order that dictates that IF I attempted to make any contact whatsoever I will probably go to prison.

Given all of this, we can now understand just how broken the family courts are and how ultimately they do not care about the children and the children’s human rights to have a loving parent bring them up AT ALL.

The courts are playing a very dangerous game with peoples lives because it is also well known that children have also killed themselves after losing parents that they love and adore. It can certainly do tremendous damage to children and destroy their entire childhoods with loss of a loving parent and lies.

You can now see that certainly in my case, it simply doesn’t matter what you say to the judge or the information you provide the judge with. How can this be law? Parents destroying themselves financially and emotionally in sheer desperation to get their beloved children back. I have now proven beyond doubt that law in the family courts doesn’t exist for me anyway.

Perhaps that’s why you do not swear an oath to tell the truth in these hearings. Is it because the criminal act of perjury is acceptable in family law?

Remember, I’ve done nothing to lose my rights to be a father, I acted in self defence, pushing an arm away THAT WAS HITTING ME, whilst simply begging someone to stop the abuse. I have provided ALL of this truth, gone to all of these great lengths and yet still I am not allowed to be a father. 




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Innocent children, father, mother, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends - understand the tragedy that affects everyone.

After a 7 year hell this is a walk-through of a three hour final hearing in the children's court that wrongfully 'convicted' three innocent children and their father. Separated with zero contact for nearly ten years based purely on horrific lies with no evidence, whole childhoods destroyed.

This is proof that the criminal act of perjury is perfectly acceptable, corruption is normal and it creates the illegal removal of children from a loving parent.

No evidence is required to take the children - evidence against it is ignored. Child protection agencies are broken and act unlawfully.

This is the damming truth and can happen to anyone at any time - understand this. No one is special - we certainly are not.

This system wants to operate in secret - this book will show you the damnation and horrors from within the court room itself and exposes the horrific truth of a legal system that everyone wants to believe is right, correct and put the children first - think again!!!

One adoring father - three beautiful young children, all victims of crimes in court rooms, written in law by lies and corruption.

Your whole family will be destroyed if this happens to you - it has to stop.