Clearing my name


by Anonymous Father



This was my post to my friends and family that care about me. It was very difficult for me to do as only a few very close friends knew about the suicide and this project, my book. 

The life that has been put on me, the damage to my character and my reputation are lies that have been created by others. Lies they keep telling to try to back up their child abusing criminal acts. Turning me into the monster. I should never have had to do this……. 


It is now time for the TRUTH. In December I posted a cryptic suicide note, it was real. I woke up in intensive care the next morning. I survived. Surviving it has given me a purpose and obligation. At the bottom of this post are copies of a book I’ve written and a campaign I’ve recently gone live with. This is a long post so if you feel you’re not interested in getting to the end then I fully support you un friending me. This is MY forum to share MY truth with MY friends. 

I’ve received so much support over the years from the sad posts about my alienated children who I’ve fought so hard to rescue from their abuse. Parental alienation IS child abuse. My children’s mother, her partner and her solicitor have created all of this from nothing. 

My problem is I know that a lot of people think ‘well he must have done something’ I understand you but I did nothing, in fact I was acting in self defence. 

I have friends telling me her partner is trying to antagonise me by posting things on his Facebook and de faming me or worse, antagonise me. 

I’ve had to live with the stigma of being a father who must have done something so bad I cannot be with my children. 

I’ve had someone in a pub say I must be a really bad dad. 

I’ve been published in the observer for having criminal records. Acts of simply trying to fight the criminal system that has criminalised me. 

I’ve been told that when she sees people she tells them ‘it’s such a shame dad doesn’t want to have anything to do with his children, doesn’t want to see them’ she says this in front of the children convincing them it’s true. This happens in town when she tells the courts she can no longer go into town for fear of me. All horrific lies inside and outside of court hearings. 

Horrendous lies are being told about me by three people criminally abusing my three angels and in turn destroying me and there’s nothing I can do. 

I’ve written this book partly for you, if you care about me I cannot have you doubting me. The truth is in the book, I know my situation comes up in various conversations so please honour me with knowing the truth. There is no need now to speculate anymore. 

I’ve lost friends and family through this. 

My life has been ruined by this, I have become a virtual recluse and there’s not much left of me. Missing my children consumes me every day. 

Having started this campaign I’ve realised how catastrophic this problem is world wide. In my case a solicitor literally just wrote lies, took the lies to court and my children were gone in a heartbeat. The wishes of their mother. 

REMEMBER, on that day three children lost their adoring father too this abuse is happening to children all over the world

A solicitor making himself rich by facilitating child abuse. Right now I know my children and I are not his only victims. 

My children and I are being abused, two years later there’s been no contact and no end in sight. 

I feel personally obliged to take this horror and use it for some good, some exposure. If I can save one child from this it’s been worth it. Perhaps save one parent from suicide I’ve succeeded. 

I’ve had to read that my children no longer want to see me, they are ashamed of me and even want to change their surnames as they don’t want to be associated to me. They have been completely poisoned and their childhoods destroyed my children are not alone. 

The truth of how what has happened, what has been allowed to happen is in the book and I think it will surprise a lot of you, we all want to believe there’s a legal system right? 

I am anonymous in my book and wish to remain that way to others so if you feel like supporting my campaign don’t share this post, share the link. if you’re interested you can buy the book from the link there or go straight to Amazon. 

Please follow legallystolenchildren on Instagram too if you’d like. 

Innocent children are being abused and I’m trying to do my bit to help stop it. 

We live in a small town where word travels fast. I do not deserve to have my life and reputation ruined by child abusing criminals. I have the right to clear my name. 

If you got this far, thanks


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Innocent children, father, mother, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends - understand the tragedy that affects everyone.

After a 7 year hell this is a walk-through of a three hour final hearing in the children's court that wrongfully 'convicted' three innocent children and their father. Separated with zero contact for nearly ten years based purely on horrific lies with no evidence, whole childhoods destroyed.

This is proof that the criminal act of perjury is perfectly acceptable, corruption is normal and it creates the illegal removal of children from a loving parent.

No evidence is required to take the children - evidence against it is ignored. Child protection agencies are broken and act unlawfully.

This is the damming truth and can happen to anyone at any time - understand this. No one is special - we certainly are not.

This system wants to operate in secret - this book will show you the damnation and horrors from within the court room itself and exposes the horrific truth of a legal system that everyone wants to believe is right, correct and put the children first - think again!!!

One adoring father - three beautiful young children, all victims of crimes in court rooms, written in law by lies and corruption.

Your whole family will be destroyed if this happens to you - it has to stop.